"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What do you do when you're too busy to date?

MoreThanSmooth

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I know it sounds soft but I feel like a bit of a d*ck today for flaking on a lass.

I had a cute girl lined up for a date this weekend, she was into playing videogames, watching geeky movies and all these other tomboyish hobbies. I'm a fan of that because it means fun nights in are super easy to arrange and she seemed really easy going.

We were going to get some drinks on Sat. But I've cancelled and said I'm really busy because...I'm just really f*cking busy!

My work life is mad to the point of keeping me awake at night at the moment and I'm not even getting anywhere near the productivity I want. I've cancelled dates with like 4 girls now, usually get ghosted afterwards of course.

Do you just stop dating entirely when you're working hard, or do you just go for it regardless?

If i stop dating entirely I feel like a f*cking monk and I just go testosterone mad, if I date I get stressed out because I'm d*cking about with my professional career and so in the end it goes nowhere anyway.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Low priorties get forggotten about.

Nothing wrong with going after your goals.
 
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