"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you do when you're too busy to date?

MoreThanSmooth

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I know it sounds soft but I feel like a bit of a d*ck today for flaking on a lass.

I had a cute girl lined up for a date this weekend, she was into playing videogames, watching geeky movies and all these other tomboyish hobbies. I'm a fan of that because it means fun nights in are super easy to arrange and she seemed really easy going.

We were going to get some drinks on Sat. But I've cancelled and said I'm really busy because...I'm just really f*cking busy!

My work life is mad to the point of keeping me awake at night at the moment and I'm not even getting anywhere near the productivity I want. I've cancelled dates with like 4 girls now, usually get ghosted afterwards of course.

Do you just stop dating entirely when you're working hard, or do you just go for it regardless?

If i stop dating entirely I feel like a f*cking monk and I just go testosterone mad, if I date I get stressed out because I'm d*cking about with my professional career and so in the end it goes nowhere anyway.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wifehunter

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Low priorties get forggotten about.

Nothing wrong with going after your goals.
 
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