"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you do when you're too busy to date?

MoreThanSmooth

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I know it sounds soft but I feel like a bit of a d*ck today for flaking on a lass.

I had a cute girl lined up for a date this weekend, she was into playing videogames, watching geeky movies and all these other tomboyish hobbies. I'm a fan of that because it means fun nights in are super easy to arrange and she seemed really easy going.

We were going to get some drinks on Sat. But I've cancelled and said I'm really busy because...I'm just really f*cking busy!

My work life is mad to the point of keeping me awake at night at the moment and I'm not even getting anywhere near the productivity I want. I've cancelled dates with like 4 girls now, usually get ghosted afterwards of course.

Do you just stop dating entirely when you're working hard, or do you just go for it regardless?

If i stop dating entirely I feel like a f*cking monk and I just go testosterone mad, if I date I get stressed out because I'm d*cking about with my professional career and so in the end it goes nowhere anyway.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wifehunter

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Low priorties get forggotten about.

Nothing wrong with going after your goals.
 
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