"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do you do when you're too busy to date?

MoreThanSmooth

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I know it sounds soft but I feel like a bit of a d*ck today for flaking on a lass.

I had a cute girl lined up for a date this weekend, she was into playing videogames, watching geeky movies and all these other tomboyish hobbies. I'm a fan of that because it means fun nights in are super easy to arrange and she seemed really easy going.

We were going to get some drinks on Sat. But I've cancelled and said I'm really busy because...I'm just really f*cking busy!

My work life is mad to the point of keeping me awake at night at the moment and I'm not even getting anywhere near the productivity I want. I've cancelled dates with like 4 girls now, usually get ghosted afterwards of course.

Do you just stop dating entirely when you're working hard, or do you just go for it regardless?

If i stop dating entirely I feel like a f*cking monk and I just go testosterone mad, if I date I get stressed out because I'm d*cking about with my professional career and so in the end it goes nowhere anyway.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wifehunter

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Low priorties get forggotten about.

Nothing wrong with going after your goals.
 
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