That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
hmm.. definitely makes sense. Come to think about it, you are right. Thanks for enlightning meOriginally posted by the_reader
lol well try not to ask questions in the conversation, but tell stories and make jokes. I know what you mean, some girls just give you quick short replies, in that case I usually just loose interest in talking to them and move on.
There's a girl at school, she actively seeks me out and says "hi" and tries to get my attention, but for the life of me we can't have a conversation, she always just gives really short answers. She's HB8 too, so i feel bad giving her the "next"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thats a good one,I will add another response as well. "howcome you dont talk so much? Iam not that intimidating am I? The last chick I talked to asked me for my autograph, and then ran off to her girl friends who were all blushing. You know its hard to find someone who can hold a conversion. You can hold a conversation cant you?"Originally posted by Ace of Flames
bust her balls on it.
"why are your answers so short? got something to hide? i bet your in the witness protection program or something. yea, thats the only logical explaination. i mean, if not that, then what? you're talking to me, how could you NOT want to say all thats on your mind?"
use what she gives you. in this case, its short answers. oh, and if she really IS in the witness protection program, well... she'll be moved again before long. cant have people knowing her secret.