When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
hmm.. definitely makes sense. Come to think about it, you are right. Thanks for enlightning meOriginally posted by the_reader
lol well try not to ask questions in the conversation, but tell stories and make jokes. I know what you mean, some girls just give you quick short replies, in that case I usually just loose interest in talking to them and move on.
There's a girl at school, she actively seeks me out and says "hi" and tries to get my attention, but for the life of me we can't have a conversation, she always just gives really short answers. She's HB8 too, so i feel bad giving her the "next"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Thats a good one,I will add another response as well. "howcome you dont talk so much? Iam not that intimidating am I? The last chick I talked to asked me for my autograph, and then ran off to her girl friends who were all blushing. You know its hard to find someone who can hold a conversion. You can hold a conversation cant you?"Originally posted by Ace of Flames
bust her balls on it.
"why are your answers so short? got something to hide? i bet your in the witness protection program or something. yea, thats the only logical explaination. i mean, if not that, then what? you're talking to me, how could you NOT want to say all thats on your mind?"
use what she gives you. in this case, its short answers. oh, and if she really IS in the witness protection program, well... she'll be moved again before long. cant have people knowing her secret.