"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What do you do when LOVE gets in your way?
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My very subtle point was that you need to make your question a bit clearer.Originally posted by aequitas
if only it was THAT easy
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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If it's getting "in the way," then it's not love.Originally posted by aequitas
Has love ever gotten in your way?
If it has, please be so kind as to explain how & what u did about it
I take it you mean when she says she loves you, but you can't reciprocate, and you can't see yourself ever doing so.
If that's the case, break up with her asap.
If you mean, you've fallen for her, but she doesn't love you, well... then go cold turkey and pursue other girls at once.
If instead you mean you're in love with each other, but you'd still like to bang other HBs, well... that's called being a guy.
And if it's love, not just the infatuation and lust that can consume you early in a relationship, well, then... well, you wouldn't be saying it's in the way, and you wouldn't be on this board.
so i was just interested to hear some of your stories about how "love" affected YOUR life(if it ever has).
hehe, well ya... i hope u get what i mean now
Laterz all....
Well, personally, I have been in love. In fact I just made the hard decision to dump a girl who continued (maybe even continues) to love me while I lost interest in her.
I don't think love can ever get in the way. That's why your question was humorous to me (and probably the others above). In my case, her continued love was making the relationship unbalanced. But, it's still a wonderfull thing. Pain because of love is the most beautiful kind of pain there is.
It's important to understand that if you're in love, you'll be your girls b!tch and she'll be yours. And, d@mn it, you'll like it!
It can't get in your way, because other women won't show up on your radar."I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.