"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What do you do when LOVE gets in your way?
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My very subtle point was that you need to make your question a bit clearer.Originally posted by aequitas
if only it was THAT easy
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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If it's getting "in the way," then it's not love.Originally posted by aequitas
Has love ever gotten in your way?
If it has, please be so kind as to explain how & what u did about it
I take it you mean when she says she loves you, but you can't reciprocate, and you can't see yourself ever doing so.
If that's the case, break up with her asap.
If you mean, you've fallen for her, but she doesn't love you, well... then go cold turkey and pursue other girls at once.
If instead you mean you're in love with each other, but you'd still like to bang other HBs, well... that's called being a guy.
And if it's love, not just the infatuation and lust that can consume you early in a relationship, well, then... well, you wouldn't be saying it's in the way, and you wouldn't be on this board.
so i was just interested to hear some of your stories about how "love" affected YOUR life(if it ever has).
hehe, well ya... i hope u get what i mean now
Laterz all....
Well, personally, I have been in love. In fact I just made the hard decision to dump a girl who continued (maybe even continues) to love me while I lost interest in her.
I don't think love can ever get in the way. That's why your question was humorous to me (and probably the others above). In my case, her continued love was making the relationship unbalanced. But, it's still a wonderfull thing. Pain because of love is the most beautiful kind of pain there is.
It's important to understand that if you're in love, you'll be your girls b!tch and she'll be yours. And, d@mn it, you'll like it!
It can't get in your way, because other women won't show up on your radar."I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.