"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what do you do when girls ask you to do dumb*ss things when you just met them

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i have a few of these situations have happened to me. Ill tell you one of them.

ex1.

Im walkin in the hallway, and a lot of freshmen are in the hallway doin a science lab. This chick and i made eye contact.

her: hi

me: hey

me: What class is this for

her: Earth science

me: Oh, so your freshmen

her: ya, here (hands me a microfying glass) point it at the sun and look into it

me: (I started taking it) and said quietly you trying to blind me?

her: omg i was just kidding

me: well ok i gotta get back to class

her: what class you in

me: a bussiness class

her: that sux

me: ya, well i gotta go

her: k cya

I mean wtf was she tryin to blind me? Or should I have told her to do it first. 4 more of those incedences happend to me this yr, that were like that. but with different girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She was trying to make a joke, you came off as too serious.. Relax, laugh at it, and make a joke about it.
 
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Originally posted by arutha
She was trying to make a joke, you came off as too serious.. Relax, laugh at it, and make a joke about it.
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o... no wonder, i was about to take a test i guess i was in a serious mood.
 
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You should have pat her on her cute butt and said "later toots." That is the ultimate ****y way of saying bye, it gets the girls obsessing with you wanting to get animal crazy with you in no time!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Or like today this girl sittn next to was glueing something and she starts to put glue on my arm, and proceeded to put a paper on it. I glued her right back.
 
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sounds like a funny relaxed girl
loosen up a little and remember its ok to make friends
 
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