"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What do you do when a large girl or chubby girl like you??
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
heh, yeah it olds.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Same. Maybe 120 max if they buy me a car.Originally posted by diablo
Nothing over 115 lbs here...
trent423
Don Juan
i'm actually friends with fat girls. i wouldn't date them but that doesn't mean i'm not friends with them. fat girls aren't interested in me anyways, tho. full figured is one thing but you CAN go overboard.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
diablo...If I had 100k I'd bet it with you right now that you've not only dated but also slept with women over 115 lbs. Unless, that is...you ONLY have ever been with women 5 feet tall or less and flat chested. A 5'3" to 5'5" girl who is a size 5/6 can weigh over 150lbs and have a perfectly toned body in every area. You should never, ever go on weight, because it's always misleading.Originally posted by diablo
Nothing over 115 lbs here...
(had to edit out the "throw it away" because I'd definitely win this bet.
)Centaurion
Master Don Juan
when i say fat, I mean 200lbs +.
luv_ya_amj
Don Juan
AGAIN SCHOOL BOYS,
Must I REALLY pull out "THE CHART"??
*SIGH*
Making assumptions without proof...NOT too smart...
BUT they do say close to half of all American's are uneducated...
HMMM....
Craig, dating who you like and not care what everyone thinks is a great idea. But when it is YOU who is making fun of yourself for doing this bad, that is when you gotta let her go!
Yes im basing a lot of things on the looks. I am not a perfectionist, but there are some things that I want a girl to have, like a CUTE FACE. I've hooked up with girls who were a little bigger but had beautiful faces..yes i got some sh1t from my friends but i also got kisses...