"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What do you do when a large girl or chubby girl like you??
- Thread starter knight56
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
heh, yeah it olds.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Same. Maybe 120 max if they buy me a car.Originally posted by diablo
Nothing over 115 lbs here...
trent423
Don Juan
i'm actually friends with fat girls. i wouldn't date them but that doesn't mean i'm not friends with them. fat girls aren't interested in me anyways, tho. full figured is one thing but you CAN go overboard.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
diablo...If I had 100k I'd bet it with you right now that you've not only dated but also slept with women over 115 lbs. Unless, that is...you ONLY have ever been with women 5 feet tall or less and flat chested. A 5'3" to 5'5" girl who is a size 5/6 can weigh over 150lbs and have a perfectly toned body in every area. You should never, ever go on weight, because it's always misleading.Originally posted by diablo
Nothing over 115 lbs here...
(had to edit out the "throw it away" because I'd definitely win this bet.
)Centaurion
Master Don Juan
when i say fat, I mean 200lbs +.
luv_ya_amj
Don Juan
AGAIN SCHOOL BOYS,
Must I REALLY pull out "THE CHART"??
*SIGH*
Making assumptions without proof...NOT too smart...
BUT they do say close to half of all American's are uneducated...
HMMM....
Craig, dating who you like and not care what everyone thinks is a great idea. But when it is YOU who is making fun of yourself for doing this bad, that is when you gotta let her go!
Yes im basing a lot of things on the looks. I am not a perfectionist, but there are some things that I want a girl to have, like a CUTE FACE. I've hooked up with girls who were a little bigger but had beautiful faces..yes i got some sh1t from my friends but i also got kisses...