"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What do you do when a large girl or chubby girl like you??
- Thread starter knight56
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
heh, yeah it olds.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Same. Maybe 120 max if they buy me a car.Originally posted by diablo
Nothing over 115 lbs here...
trent423
Don Juan
i'm actually friends with fat girls. i wouldn't date them but that doesn't mean i'm not friends with them. fat girls aren't interested in me anyways, tho. full figured is one thing but you CAN go overboard.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo...If I had 100k I'd bet it with you right now that you've not only dated but also slept with women over 115 lbs. Unless, that is...you ONLY have ever been with women 5 feet tall or less and flat chested. A 5'3" to 5'5" girl who is a size 5/6 can weigh over 150lbs and have a perfectly toned body in every area. You should never, ever go on weight, because it's always misleading.Originally posted by diablo
Nothing over 115 lbs here...
(had to edit out the "throw it away" because I'd definitely win this bet.
)Centaurion
Master Don Juan
when i say fat, I mean 200lbs +.
luv_ya_amj
Don Juan
AGAIN SCHOOL BOYS,
Must I REALLY pull out "THE CHART"??
*SIGH*
Making assumptions without proof...NOT too smart...
BUT they do say close to half of all American's are uneducated...
HMMM....
Craig, dating who you like and not care what everyone thinks is a great idea. But when it is YOU who is making fun of yourself for doing this bad, that is when you gotta let her go!
Yes im basing a lot of things on the looks. I am not a perfectionist, but there are some things that I want a girl to have, like a CUTE FACE. I've hooked up with girls who were a little bigger but had beautiful faces..yes i got some sh1t from my friends but i also got kisses...