Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sarging is running game to pick up (or at least attempt to pick up) women.irocknike23 said:what does sarging mean?
This is solid advice.ThreeStorms said:If you are a shy guy and plan to go on your own, I'd suggest visiting or at least calling a good friend, have a good conversation and some laughs. Makes you much more social when you enter the scene.
Haha, I like it! The Song that is. I always listen to loud music in my car before I sarge. It's usually heavy metal, but sometimes it's rap or laid back stuff.Mike32ct said:Sarging is running game to pick up (or at least attempt to pick up) women.
I believe the term originally came from Ross Jeffries. Originally, the term was limited to picking women using Ross' methods. But over time, the term evolved in the Community. Currently, the term sarging is used to mean picking up women using ANY method (or no method if you use purely unstructured natural game).
Getting back to the OP's question, before going out sarging, I recommend listening to music that gets you in "game mode." For example, it could be club music that gets you in the mood to go out.
Or listen to the sarging song somebody did...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-N2os74Mdc