You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sarging is running game to pick up (or at least attempt to pick up) women.irocknike23 said:what does sarging mean?
This is solid advice.ThreeStorms said:If you are a shy guy and plan to go on your own, I'd suggest visiting or at least calling a good friend, have a good conversation and some laughs. Makes you much more social when you enter the scene.
Haha, I like it! The Song that is. I always listen to loud music in my car before I sarge. It's usually heavy metal, but sometimes it's rap or laid back stuff.Mike32ct said:Sarging is running game to pick up (or at least attempt to pick up) women.
I believe the term originally came from Ross Jeffries. Originally, the term was limited to picking women using Ross' methods. But over time, the term evolved in the Community. Currently, the term sarging is used to mean picking up women using ANY method (or no method if you use purely unstructured natural game).
Getting back to the OP's question, before going out sarging, I recommend listening to music that gets you in "game mode." For example, it could be club music that gets you in the mood to go out.
Or listen to the sarging song somebody did...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-N2os74Mdc