She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Sarging is running game to pick up (or at least attempt to pick up) women.irocknike23 said:what does sarging mean?
This is solid advice.ThreeStorms said:If you are a shy guy and plan to go on your own, I'd suggest visiting or at least calling a good friend, have a good conversation and some laughs. Makes you much more social when you enter the scene.
Haha, I like it! The Song that is. I always listen to loud music in my car before I sarge. It's usually heavy metal, but sometimes it's rap or laid back stuff.Mike32ct said:Sarging is running game to pick up (or at least attempt to pick up) women.
I believe the term originally came from Ross Jeffries. Originally, the term was limited to picking women using Ross' methods. But over time, the term evolved in the Community. Currently, the term sarging is used to mean picking up women using ANY method (or no method if you use purely unstructured natural game).
Getting back to the OP's question, before going out sarging, I recommend listening to music that gets you in "game mode." For example, it could be club music that gets you in the mood to go out.
Or listen to the sarging song somebody did...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-N2os74Mdc