Has anyone ever gotten busted by their girl who found their blogs on a site like this? Will she think we are just "playing games" and being manipulative? Not that this has ever happened to me... and no honey, you don't look fat in that dress.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
What do you do if your girlfriend finds all your blogs on this site?
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
loreocookie
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How about by apologizing for not only rating her, but posting it online?
Or apologizing for posting a personal and emotional email - and then having the reaction of "Is she bluffing?" Did you ever consider how you hurt her feelings? Did you get anything at all from the email? Or did you only think of what game you should play next?
Or apologizing for posting a personal and emotional email - and then having the reaction of "Is she bluffing?" Did you ever consider how you hurt her feelings? Did you get anything at all from the email? Or did you only think of what game you should play next?
ValleyDJing
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Bump. I was kinda wondering about that sort of thing too. Not even necessarily your girlfriend. My guess is any chick that finds out you've been posting here would consider you a big loser. So how would you combat that?
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Yeah...and somehow she'll believe that her email that was posted word for word magically appeared on the internet....
What's your degree in? Rocket science?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
THE_ADDMAN
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easy, just say you were doing it so you could become a better man for her.
game, set and match.
game, set and match.
my ex new about this website. I told her I used to be a loser then she said "what happend?" and i told her about it... then we sat down and read stuff together.ValleyDJing said:
if this website is associated with loser then WTF are you doing here? thats like being a fake DJ.
nice sig though, it made me chuckle :rock:
Or just admit it and say, 'wat? Somethings wrong?' and change subject...
If you're ashamed to be here, why are you here ?? My female friend knows I post here and she reads some of the threads under my name, she thinks its interesting. Wat's to be ashamed about ?? That you have problems picking up women and you want help ?? Ashamed... grow up...
My girl was just in the room and sosuave was up, she's not nosey and dosen't care what I do, so she didn't look closely, but if she had... I'd tell her the truth, its entertaining and I help people out with life problems and vent when i'm having problems... honesty is always the best policy
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If you're ashamed to be here, why are you here ?? My female friend knows I post here and she reads some of the threads under my name, she thinks its interesting. Wat's to be ashamed about ?? That you have problems picking up women and you want help ?? Ashamed... grow up...
My girl was just in the room and sosuave was up, she's not nosey and dosen't care what I do, so she didn't look closely, but if she had... I'd tell her the truth, its entertaining and I help people out with life problems and vent when i'm having problems... honesty is always the best policy
-Cod3r
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Is loreocookie your gf?
Docs
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That's pretty cool, what happened to her?
Better yet...did anything work :rockon:????
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ValleyDJing
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I know this site isn't for losers. But for somebody who's never heard of it...xomel said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Thanks for being sympathetic to my feelings big neil. (look I wrote your name.) And thanks for the apology. Oh wait...I didn't get one.
Here is a video to help you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J38LP8v8E_E
Centaurion
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AHAHAHAH
It's because of sh!t like this I <3 sosuave.
I remember a kid posting about how his sister turned him on and posted her myspace profile or something like that. And guess what the guys here did? They emailed her the link to his post!
Hahahahahaha
It's because of sh!t like this I <3 sosuave.
I remember a kid posting about how his sister turned him on and posted her myspace profile or something like that. And guess what the guys here did? They emailed her the link to his post!
Hahahahahaha
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Keep your b!tch off of your computer. 
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.