Has anyone ever gotten busted by their girl who found their blogs on a site like this? Will she think we are just "playing games" and being manipulative? Not that this has ever happened to me... and no honey, you don't look fat in that dress.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What do you do if your girlfriend finds all your blogs on this site?
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
loreocookie
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How about by apologizing for not only rating her, but posting it online?
Or apologizing for posting a personal and emotional email - and then having the reaction of "Is she bluffing?" Did you ever consider how you hurt her feelings? Did you get anything at all from the email? Or did you only think of what game you should play next?
Or apologizing for posting a personal and emotional email - and then having the reaction of "Is she bluffing?" Did you ever consider how you hurt her feelings? Did you get anything at all from the email? Or did you only think of what game you should play next?
ValleyDJing
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Bump. I was kinda wondering about that sort of thing too. Not even necessarily your girlfriend. My guess is any chick that finds out you've been posting here would consider you a big loser. So how would you combat that?
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Yeah...and somehow she'll believe that her email that was posted word for word magically appeared on the internet....
What's your degree in? Rocket science?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
THE_ADDMAN
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easy, just say you were doing it so you could become a better man for her.
game, set and match.
game, set and match.
my ex new about this website. I told her I used to be a loser then she said "what happend?" and i told her about it... then we sat down and read stuff together.ValleyDJing said:
if this website is associated with loser then WTF are you doing here? thats like being a fake DJ.
nice sig though, it made me chuckle :rock:
Or just admit it and say, 'wat? Somethings wrong?' and change subject...
If you're ashamed to be here, why are you here ?? My female friend knows I post here and she reads some of the threads under my name, she thinks its interesting. Wat's to be ashamed about ?? That you have problems picking up women and you want help ?? Ashamed... grow up...
My girl was just in the room and sosuave was up, she's not nosey and dosen't care what I do, so she didn't look closely, but if she had... I'd tell her the truth, its entertaining and I help people out with life problems and vent when i'm having problems... honesty is always the best policy
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If you're ashamed to be here, why are you here ?? My female friend knows I post here and she reads some of the threads under my name, she thinks its interesting. Wat's to be ashamed about ?? That you have problems picking up women and you want help ?? Ashamed... grow up...
My girl was just in the room and sosuave was up, she's not nosey and dosen't care what I do, so she didn't look closely, but if she had... I'd tell her the truth, its entertaining and I help people out with life problems and vent when i'm having problems... honesty is always the best policy
-Cod3r
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Is loreocookie your gf?
Docs
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That's pretty cool, what happened to her?
Better yet...did anything work :rockon:????
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
I know this site isn't for losers. But for somebody who's never heard of it...xomel said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Thanks for being sympathetic to my feelings big neil. (look I wrote your name.) And thanks for the apology. Oh wait...I didn't get one.
Here is a video to help you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J38LP8v8E_E
Centaurion
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AHAHAHAH
It's because of sh!t like this I <3 sosuave.
I remember a kid posting about how his sister turned him on and posted her myspace profile or something like that. And guess what the guys here did? They emailed her the link to his post!
Hahahahahaha
It's because of sh!t like this I <3 sosuave.
I remember a kid posting about how his sister turned him on and posted her myspace profile or something like that. And guess what the guys here did? They emailed her the link to his post!
Hahahahahaha
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Keep your b!tch off of your computer. 
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.