Has anyone ever gotten busted by their girl who found their blogs on a site like this? Will she think we are just "playing games" and being manipulative? Not that this has ever happened to me... and no honey, you don't look fat in that dress.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What do you do if your girlfriend finds all your blogs on this site?
- Thread starter bigneil
- Start date
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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How about by apologizing for not only rating her, but posting it online?
Or apologizing for posting a personal and emotional email - and then having the reaction of "Is she bluffing?" Did you ever consider how you hurt her feelings? Did you get anything at all from the email? Or did you only think of what game you should play next?
Or apologizing for posting a personal and emotional email - and then having the reaction of "Is she bluffing?" Did you ever consider how you hurt her feelings? Did you get anything at all from the email? Or did you only think of what game you should play next?
ValleyDJing
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Bump. I was kinda wondering about that sort of thing too. Not even necessarily your girlfriend. My guess is any chick that finds out you've been posting here would consider you a big loser. So how would you combat that?
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Yeah...and somehow she'll believe that her email that was posted word for word magically appeared on the internet....
What's your degree in? Rocket science?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
THE_ADDMAN
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easy, just say you were doing it so you could become a better man for her.
game, set and match.
game, set and match.
my ex new about this website. I told her I used to be a loser then she said "what happend?" and i told her about it... then we sat down and read stuff together.ValleyDJing said:
if this website is associated with loser then WTF are you doing here? thats like being a fake DJ.
nice sig though, it made me chuckle :rock:
Or just admit it and say, 'wat? Somethings wrong?' and change subject...
If you're ashamed to be here, why are you here ?? My female friend knows I post here and she reads some of the threads under my name, she thinks its interesting. Wat's to be ashamed about ?? That you have problems picking up women and you want help ?? Ashamed... grow up...
My girl was just in the room and sosuave was up, she's not nosey and dosen't care what I do, so she didn't look closely, but if she had... I'd tell her the truth, its entertaining and I help people out with life problems and vent when i'm having problems... honesty is always the best policy
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If you're ashamed to be here, why are you here ?? My female friend knows I post here and she reads some of the threads under my name, she thinks its interesting. Wat's to be ashamed about ?? That you have problems picking up women and you want help ?? Ashamed... grow up...
My girl was just in the room and sosuave was up, she's not nosey and dosen't care what I do, so she didn't look closely, but if she had... I'd tell her the truth, its entertaining and I help people out with life problems and vent when i'm having problems... honesty is always the best policy
-Cod3r
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Is loreocookie your gf?
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That's pretty cool, what happened to her?
Better yet...did anything work :rockon:????
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ValleyDJing
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I know this site isn't for losers. But for somebody who's never heard of it...xomel said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Thanks for being sympathetic to my feelings big neil. (look I wrote your name.) And thanks for the apology. Oh wait...I didn't get one.
Here is a video to help you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J38LP8v8E_E
Centaurion
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AHAHAHAH
It's because of sh!t like this I <3 sosuave.
I remember a kid posting about how his sister turned him on and posted her myspace profile or something like that. And guess what the guys here did? They emailed her the link to his post!
Hahahahahaha
It's because of sh!t like this I <3 sosuave.
I remember a kid posting about how his sister turned him on and posted her myspace profile or something like that. And guess what the guys here did? They emailed her the link to his post!
Hahahahahaha
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Keep your b!tch off of your computer. 
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.