"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do you do if she is gay

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I had a date with Vanessa - which went off well. When we first met, she told me she was gay. But went out with me for breakfast and she paid.

Now, I'm keen to fvck her and asked for another date in Durban the next time I went there.

Her reply sms "Hey G***o - do you remember me telling you that I am gay!?"
Me: ":) yes, but you also love men"
She: "vou sadly mistaken :) "

Me: hour later "well a threesome would be cool ;) "

I am stumped now - next or what?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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aaand don't even bother going any further. there is a huge difference between gay and bi.
 

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Hi Ballie,
Great to see you posting...Not much future in this Lady old chap...just slide out gracefully and look for more...Good Luck!
 

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especially with the threesome comment... she has heard that one a million times from pretty much every bloke she has told that she was gay hahha... go find your self some Bisexual strange bro.

had a Bi GF once... and lets just say she had a few hot lil mates she liked to play with and she is a girl that didn't mind sharing her toys ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ballie57 said:
I had a date with Vanessa - which went off well. When we first met, she told me she was gay. But went out with me for breakfast and she paid.

Now, I'm keen to fvck her and asked for another date in Durban the next time I went there.

Her reply sms "Hey G***o - do you remember me telling you that I am gay!?"
Me: ":) yes, but you also love men"
She: "vou sadly mistaken :) "

Me: hour later "well a threesome would be cool ;) "

I am stumped now - next or what?
You had a "date" with a gay girl. Duh.
 

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Not much future in this Lady old chap...just slide out gracefully and look for more...Good Luck!
Thank's mate I will do so - after all, the thrill is in the hunt. At least she paid for the breakfast and didn't flake on me. Notch it up to experience old chap, I should of taken Zoey on her offer at Toti.

You had a "date" with a gay girl. Duh.
Duh! to you too Zonder. What's wrong with dating feminine gay chicks - maybe she might be bi - who knows? After all, I'm also lesbian - I just love women!
 

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Dear Ballie,
"I should of taken Zoey on her offer"...Yup I have two golden rules,maxims if you like,that I live by....In business if someone offers you money,take it,you never know when things might go Pear shaped....With Love,never knock an offer back,ever!...The one you miss out on,is one you will never have!....I am getting a bit jaded with Asians,I need to communicate more,have a few laughs...so I am going round for rack of Lamb and all the trimmings on Sunday with a Polish Cougar....it wants me to meet the Family LOL...This one works out,has a better pair than Marilyn Monroe...not quite the invitation to take tea and meet Mother,but its a start!
 

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Personally if a girl tells me she's gay or alludes that she might be more bi than straight I will bail immediately. That's a real recipe for disaster, if you think straight girls are flaky and weird...
 

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Obviously this particular girl is not into you.

But generally speaking, "I don't believe in labels" is both what I think and what I would say straightaway. I've never met a truly gay woman who wasn't bull dyke-ish in a way that would not be attractive to men in the first place. If a girl is attractive, she will in all likelihood have had sex with men at some point in her life, and the label she puts on herself at this particular moment is irrelevant to the possibility of her having sex with you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If there was attraction on the date, that was a shiit test, you should have plowed through. I'd there wasn't attraction, then she's being straight up with you. Either way you didn't pass the test and you sealed your fate with a three some comment. Do you think that line would have worked on a straight girl
 

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Obviously this particular girl is not into you.

But generally speaking, "I don't believe in labels" is both what I think and what I would say straightaway. I've never met a truly gay woman who wasn't bull dyke-ish in a way that would not be attractive to men in the first place. If a girl is attractive, she will in all likelihood have had sex with men at some point in her life, and the label she puts on herself at this particular moment is irrelevant to the possibility of her having sex with you.
I think you hit the nail on the head. In the past, "Gay" feminine women let me kiss them feel the boobs etc - but not have sex with them (she had AIDs - as I found out later.) Her dyke friend wanted to beat me up LOL.

Vanessa is attractive - but she is not into me. I need to find a bird that is prepared to nest at Tramore for six months. That is difficult for the city women - since the farm is very remote and isolated. Oh well, I need to hunt for a local lass - maybe the vet's nurse Ashton?

Well, going to a jol in Kokstad (not c0ckstand :)) this weekend and let's see what happens....
 

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Hey dudes - a bit drunk now and tried to fvck her hamster brain. following Roissey's advice

If there was attraction on the date, that was a shiit test, you should have plowed through. I'd there wasn't attraction, then she's being straight up with you. Either way you didn't pass the test and you sealed your fate with a three some comment. Do you think that line would have worked on a straight girl
Naw, she is a c0ck teaser - kept on winking at me all the time we first met,
so i sent her this text:

2 @ 8====> ..... in reply - back to Durbs in a months time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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