"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do you consider the perfect body?

speakeasy

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For me personally, I like a girl that's about 5'4" but no less than 5'. I like girls that are shapely, with a well defined hip/waist ratio. Yet I like my women thick but a firm thick with a flat stomach, not the flabby thick. A girl with a nice round ass that looks like it's gonna bust out of her jeans. Boobs don't have to be huge, but a little something is nice, as long as she isn't flat chested. I like a nice olive, mediterranean complexion. I guess the stereotypical Brazilian chic would be my dream girl. Oh, and last but not least...TATOO-LESS!!! I can't stand tatoos on women. I hate when a girl with a perfect skin and body feels the need to stain permanent ink on it. Why oh why???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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about my height 5'8ish.. leggy, size 1-3, B cup, i'm not an ass man, I like small firm asses not big thick ones. pretty feet.. I'm all about the feet. and a nice smile. Dimples if I can help it

tat's are okay if it isn't more than one, and as long as she doesn' thave the eagle on her pvssy i'm fine...
as chris rock said about the eagle tattoo on the pvssy..

"you aren't going to the after-party.. you ARE the after party"
 

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I hear it's popular for redheads to put a flame tattoo above their puss.
 

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I usually don't care if chicks have tats one way or the other, with one exception. I can't explain it, but you know those rockers that have like crazy ass tribal and flame tats all up one of they're arms that flow out onto their backs? Yum. I love it, huge turn on.
 

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Cup C, flat stomach, nice toned arms and legs and a big ass. Like Jennifer Aniston in her prime days... her the last few seasons of 'Friends' is what i would describe 'the perfect body'.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My first serious girlfriend kind of set the standard for me. I like them tan, dark eyes, dark hair, around 5'3, perfect teeth, sweet, shy, good boobs but not to big (would look wierd on shorter girls), great but (Oh yeah, I'm a but guy), and an overall althletic, lithe body.

My perfect woman. But perfection is hard to reach, and flawed perfection is close enough for me.
 

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Let me think, the perfect body. She would have to blonde, with sexy blue eyes, have a cute face and a perfect ass(Not too fat, not too flat). She'd have to have sexy lips of course and nice boobs too. She'd also have to have sexy feet, meaning sexy toes and sexy soles. She would have to be just a few feet shorter than me and have sexy legs.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I must say that I used to be obsessed with boobs, but now I find myself, being more of an ass man.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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If she has a big butt, thick thighs, and a pretty good rack. I am satisfied.
 

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Perfect body

Have yet to date a girl with such an athletic physique. I've come close, infact, my ex rivaled that girl in her own unique way, but I doubt many besides me would have called her a 9 or 10.
 

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It's called Low Self Esteem (LSE)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BluEyes said:
Perfect body

Have yet to date a girl with such an athletic physique. I've come close, infact, my ex rivaled that girl in her own unique way, but I doubt many besides me would have called her a 9 or 10.
I think I'm going to have to concur with you on this one. I like athletic, leggy women with tight asses.
 

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It's all about a pretty face & legs for me... I don't care about tats very much...she just have to be pretty (to me obviously) w/ nice legs. I tend to NOT go for blonds for some reason...
 

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BluEyes said:
Perfect body

Have yet to date a girl with such an athletic physique. I've come close, infact, my ex rivaled that girl in her own unique way, but I doubt many besides me would have called her a 9 or 10.
Damn, she is soooo fine, who is that???
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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