"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do you all usually drink at the bar?

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Just curious to y’alls preferences.

I’m usually either having a Vodka and Pineapple Juice, or a Sangria.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It's been years... but straight up Bombay, Bombay sapphire, Beefeater, Tanquray, or any other good quality gin...on the rocks, freezer cold neat or freezer cold on the rocks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Depends on the time, before dark it's cold beer and after the sun has set it's always a concoction of vodka lemonade.
 

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Guinness. If available I will do a Young's Double Chocolate Stout.

If classy I like a Dirty Martini (Grey Goose) on the rocks with 3 olives.
 

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I drink diet soda at the bar too much risk anymore drinking and driving.

At home it's Blue Moon Beer, Busch Lite Beer, Jim Beam on the rocks, and an occasional bloody mary.
 

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I used to drink that but I after a few I would become such an a$$hole, so I had to migrate to beer. PBR for the win!

Strangely enough, I found out later my cousin and his brother both would become violent when they drank Jack and Coke.....guess it runs in the family.
Really? I've always found it refreshing and calms me down. I think it may be because I order it neat instead of on the rocks. It has more alcohol that way. I also go to places that I know, so the bar keeps knows I tip well and to when to shut me down by giving me a virgin after a few (I.E. Coke, not Jack).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My preferred drink is my brand of rum and coke zero at home, but bars around here only serve crap house rum and their Bacardi is too sweet for me. So vodka 7 works for me at the bar…
 

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My preferred drink is my brand of rum and coke zero at home, but bars around here only serve crap house rum and their Bacardi is too sweet for me. So vodka 7 works for me at the bar…
I always hear people talking about Bacardi, but I’ve never had it. What’s it like and what does it mix with?
 

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I always hear people talking about Bacardi, but I’ve never had it. What’s it like and what does it mix with?
Coke and a variety of mixers. The one thing to always remember though with any rum and coke or vodka 7 drink is the pinch of lime topper. Have to stay healthy with that vitamin C intake.……
 

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My preferred drink is my brand of rum and coke zero at home, but bars around here only serve crap house rum and their Bacardi is too sweet for me. So vodka 7 works for me at the bar…
NFN, but Bacardi LIMÓN sour; you might like. It's pretty good.
 

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Coke and a variety of mixers. The one thing to always remember though with any rum and coke or vodka 7 drink is the pinch of lime topper. Have to stay healthy with that vitamin C intake.……
The limes and lemons that they have in the tray are full of bacteria and such. Stay far away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'm going to treat y'all to a Water Moccasin:

1 oz Peach Schnapps
1 oz Canadian Whisky
1 dash Triple Sec
1 oz Sweet and Sour Mix
1 oz Pineapple Juice

Best shot you ever had. Ladies love it.

- Edit - most bars leave out the pineapple juice, and some leave out the sweet and sour, but it's still delicious.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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