"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ringleader41

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I waited 2 days and texted her and I can really tell her irl is high. I always **** up after this part though.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ringleader41 said:
I waited 2 days and texted her and I can really tell her irl is high. I always **** up after this part though.
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What do you wanna do? Just invite her along to do whatever it is that you like doing.

You always mess things up because you analyse stuff way too much. Leave that to girls.
 
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Set up a date or a meet up. Ask her if she's free that week. Make sure you have something planned before you even contact her.

When you mention the event, ask her if the event sounds fun instead of asking her if she wants to go. So for example, "There is this awesome Mandarin restaurant that I we should try. They have this grilled shrimp glazed with honey. Doesn't that sound good?"

It does sound good, so she will say yes. Then say when and where, and you'll see her there. Don't give her the opportunity to say no. Obviously she may be genuinely busy, so don't keep pushing for something that won't happen. But you should have filtered her availability when you asked if she was busy this week.

Don't over think. This isn't the only way to do this. You need to just go for it. If it doesn't work out, move on. There are other women.
 
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