"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ringleader41

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I waited 2 days and texted her and I can really tell her irl is high. I always **** up after this part though.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ringleader41 said:
I waited 2 days and texted her and I can really tell her irl is high. I always **** up after this part though.
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What do you wanna do? Just invite her along to do whatever it is that you like doing.

You always mess things up because you analyse stuff way too much. Leave that to girls.
 
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Set up a date or a meet up. Ask her if she's free that week. Make sure you have something planned before you even contact her.

When you mention the event, ask her if the event sounds fun instead of asking her if she wants to go. So for example, "There is this awesome Mandarin restaurant that I we should try. They have this grilled shrimp glazed with honey. Doesn't that sound good?"

It does sound good, so she will say yes. Then say when and where, and you'll see her there. Don't give her the opportunity to say no. Obviously she may be genuinely busy, so don't keep pushing for something that won't happen. But you should have filtered her availability when you asked if she was busy this week.

Don't over think. This isn't the only way to do this. You need to just go for it. If it doesn't work out, move on. There are other women.
 
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