"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I waited 2 days and texted her and I can really tell her irl is high. I always **** up after this part though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ringleader41 said:
I waited 2 days and texted her and I can really tell her irl is high. I always **** up after this part though.
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What do you wanna do? Just invite her along to do whatever it is that you like doing.

You always mess things up because you analyse stuff way too much. Leave that to girls.
 
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Set up a date or a meet up. Ask her if she's free that week. Make sure you have something planned before you even contact her.

When you mention the event, ask her if the event sounds fun instead of asking her if she wants to go. So for example, "There is this awesome Mandarin restaurant that I we should try. They have this grilled shrimp glazed with honey. Doesn't that sound good?"

It does sound good, so she will say yes. Then say when and where, and you'll see her there. Don't give her the opportunity to say no. Obviously she may be genuinely busy, so don't keep pushing for something that won't happen. But you should have filtered her availability when you asked if she was busy this week.

Don't over think. This isn't the only way to do this. You need to just go for it. If it doesn't work out, move on. There are other women.
 
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