"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do women want?

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FoolsCause said:
Isn't changing your hobbies to keep your woman happy .. AFC?
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Yes it would be very much AFC if you were just changing yourself to appease your special lady, but changing and growing for yourself is a totally different story. that's what a DJ does, he is constantly growing and changing. But he doesn't do it to get the approval of some female, he does it simply to better himself.
 
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Infamous_Wolf said:
Yes it would be very much AFC if you were just changing yourself to appease your special lady, but changing and growing for yourself is a totally different story. that's what a DJ does, he is constantly growing and changing. But he doesn't do it to get the approval of some female, he does it simply to better himself.
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That's cool but the OP is thinking of quitting video gaming to please his lady. He should play all the dam video games he wants until he really finds another hobby that he can have fun doing, rather than trying to achieve some stereotype James Bond DJ image.
 
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Women have a brain transplant before they wake up every morning.

Just focus on what YOU want and the women will follow your lead
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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