"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do women want?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FoolsCause said:
Isn't changing your hobbies to keep your woman happy .. AFC?
Yes it would be very much AFC if you were just changing yourself to appease your special lady, but changing and growing for yourself is a totally different story. that's what a DJ does, he is constantly growing and changing. But he doesn't do it to get the approval of some female, he does it simply to better himself.
 

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Infamous_Wolf said:
Yes it would be very much AFC if you were just changing yourself to appease your special lady, but changing and growing for yourself is a totally different story. that's what a DJ does, he is constantly growing and changing. But he doesn't do it to get the approval of some female, he does it simply to better himself.
That's cool but the OP is thinking of quitting video gaming to please his lady. He should play all the dam video games he wants until he really finds another hobby that he can have fun doing, rather than trying to achieve some stereotype James Bond DJ image.
 

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Women have a brain transplant before they wake up every morning.

Just focus on what YOU want and the women will follow your lead
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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