"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What do women want?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FoolsCause said:
Isn't changing your hobbies to keep your woman happy .. AFC?
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Yes it would be very much AFC if you were just changing yourself to appease your special lady, but changing and growing for yourself is a totally different story. that's what a DJ does, he is constantly growing and changing. But he doesn't do it to get the approval of some female, he does it simply to better himself.
 
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Infamous_Wolf said:
Yes it would be very much AFC if you were just changing yourself to appease your special lady, but changing and growing for yourself is a totally different story. that's what a DJ does, he is constantly growing and changing. But he doesn't do it to get the approval of some female, he does it simply to better himself.
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That's cool but the OP is thinking of quitting video gaming to please his lady. He should play all the dam video games he wants until he really finds another hobby that he can have fun doing, rather than trying to achieve some stereotype James Bond DJ image.
 
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Women have a brain transplant before they wake up every morning.

Just focus on what YOU want and the women will follow your lead
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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