"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do women talk about on the phone?!

SamePendo

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First of all, I hate this behaviour! They lose very much points when doing this.

Second, some times they're not talking to anyone! They're just playing to talk!

My question is, what do they talk about? I mean, there are women talking on the phone for most of the day. What DO they talk about?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Nothing important.
 

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The price of tea in China.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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How much more their left breast droops lower than their right.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Blathering chick - "Hey girl, did you see -blah blah blah?"

Other end of the phone - "Hell yes, what kinda nosey b!tch would I be if I - blah blah blah?"

Blathering chick - "Hey girl,won't believe who I (insert - fvcked, svcked, salad tossed . . .)."

Other end of the phone "No sh!t girl, I (insert - fvcked, svcked, salad tossed . . .) that guy last week. He ain't called me since though. Motherfvcker."



Inane bullsh!t like this.

Oh, and especially this:

Blathering chick - "Hey girl, I just bought some new -blah blah blah?"

Other end of the phone - "Slvt."
 
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