"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Drez8023

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Here is my situation: About a a week or two ago this girl told me she liked me shes is hot like around 9. Then a few days after that she goes we were and she said well i used to kinda like you but anyways. She says she now likes boys who r 3 years older than her. Then we were talkin she goes man everyone has a crush on you. I go ya Im pimpin'. Then i go can quite get that (hername) to like me. She goes I play hard to get. Earlier she said she was playin hard tp get to the older guys.The weird thing is everytime I sign on she quick says hey. Which she never used to do? Im taking this a girl as a challenge. So what are your suggestions, tips, etc.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bvbidd

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She seems like an your average high school *****. You seem kind of young but I'm sure she sucks **** pretty often by now. You can let her do this for you.
 

WC2

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Shes keeping you on the backburner while shes going for the older guys. Have been with many girls who do this (most of them). If you have the confidence of someone older, you can very much come off just as attractive. For now, just have fun you're in hs :)
 

Skilla_Staz

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Correct, this girl seems like your average HS chick. Play the game man. Don't change what you're doing. Get with other chicks, go out do your own thing. Every now and then invite her out somewhere. Make sure that when you're hangin out with her, that she has an effing blast. You'll have her on lockdown soon enough.
 
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