Here is my situation: About a a week or two ago this girl told me she liked me shes is hot like around 9. Then a few days after that she goes we were and she said well i used to kinda like you but anyways. She says she now likes boys who r 3 years older than her. Then we were talkin she goes man everyone has a crush on you. I go ya Im pimpin'. Then i go can quite get that (hername) to like me. She goes I play hard to get. Earlier she said she was playin hard tp get to the older guys.The weird thing is everytime I sign on she quick says hey. Which she never used to do? Im taking this a girl as a challenge. So what are your suggestions, tips, etc.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what do u think
- Thread starter Drez8023
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Shes keeping you on the backburner while shes going for the older guys. Have been with many girls who do this (most of them). If you have the confidence of someone older, you can very much come off just as attractive. For now, just have fun you're in hs 
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Correct, this girl seems like your average HS chick. Play the game man. Don't change what you're doing. Get with other chicks, go out do your own thing. Every now and then invite her out somewhere. Make sure that when you're hangin out with her, that she has an effing blast. You'll have her on lockdown soon enough.