"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Drez8023

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Here is my situation: About a a week or two ago this girl told me she liked me shes is hot like around 9. Then a few days after that she goes we were and she said well i used to kinda like you but anyways. She says she now likes boys who r 3 years older than her. Then we were talkin she goes man everyone has a crush on you. I go ya Im pimpin'. Then i go can quite get that (hername) to like me. She goes I play hard to get. Earlier she said she was playin hard tp get to the older guys.The weird thing is everytime I sign on she quick says hey. Which she never used to do? Im taking this a girl as a challenge. So what are your suggestions, tips, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bvbidd

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She seems like an your average high school *****. You seem kind of young but I'm sure she sucks **** pretty often by now. You can let her do this for you.
 

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Shes keeping you on the backburner while shes going for the older guys. Have been with many girls who do this (most of them). If you have the confidence of someone older, you can very much come off just as attractive. For now, just have fun you're in hs :)
 

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Correct, this girl seems like your average HS chick. Play the game man. Don't change what you're doing. Get with other chicks, go out do your own thing. Every now and then invite her out somewhere. Make sure that when you're hangin out with her, that she has an effing blast. You'll have her on lockdown soon enough.
 
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