Here is my situation: About a a week or two ago this girl told me she liked me shes is hot like around 9. Then a few days after that she goes we were and she said well i used to kinda like you but anyways. She says she now likes boys who r 3 years older than her. Then we were talkin she goes man everyone has a crush on you. I go ya Im pimpin'. Then i go can quite get that (hername) to like me. She goes I play hard to get. Earlier she said she was playin hard tp get to the older guys.The weird thing is everytime I sign on she quick says hey. Which she never used to do? Im taking this a girl as a challenge. So what are your suggestions, tips, etc.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
what do u think
- Thread starter Drez8023
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Shes keeping you on the backburner while shes going for the older guys. Have been with many girls who do this (most of them). If you have the confidence of someone older, you can very much come off just as attractive. For now, just have fun you're in hs 
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Correct, this girl seems like your average HS chick. Play the game man. Don't change what you're doing. Get with other chicks, go out do your own thing. Every now and then invite her out somewhere. Make sure that when you're hangin out with her, that she has an effing blast. You'll have her on lockdown soon enough.