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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do u do when things between u n a girl get awkward?

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I went for this girl but messed up. I ignored her for a while so now we avoid each other. Now I just want her to be my friend n I have tried talking to her several times. However she still avoids me when it's still very awkward. What do u do to make things comfortable again??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What benefit are you going to obtain in being friends? You tried to initiate and she still avoids you, dont attach yourself (its not like she has a magic vajayjay) just move on.
 

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There is a reason why the pie is lie.
 

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I'm in a very similar situation, only I don't really want to be her friend, although she did just get into a sorority that has a lot of girls, I'd rather it just not be awkward. Personally, the first time I went into a coffee shop and the only seat open was next to her, and i was like since this is going to be awkward if we sit here quietly for 2 hours, i"m going to say hi now, and stop it. She seemed a little bit looser after that. Just now i saw her in the gym so i said good morning. Basically I'm taking the approach that if I'm not awkward then hopefully she won't be.

But this is the first time I've been in this position, I've been on the other side before, and the girl I'm pretty sure went out of her way to say hi when she saw me just so I'd feel more awkward, eventually though I realized there was no reason to be awkard
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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