"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What do to with a virgin girl.

segam

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hey guys..
I'm hangin' out with a girl... I'm not in love with her 'n I don't wanna any romance with her ..... I met her just for havin' a good time 'n for sex.... Later I found out that she's virgin 'n she wants deeper relations with me , I DON"T 'n don't want to hurt her,.
Please give me an advice how to be in this case ..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JonJack

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If you didn't want to hurt her, you shouldn't have done things that would hurt her.

To just go out with a girl for fun and sex and then to expect her to not get hurt by it is naive.

If you really do not want to hurt her, you've got to lie to her about your true intentions. However, lying to someone could always result in them finding out the truth. Which in the end would hurt her anyway.
 

Hanz

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If your decent, don't pressure her. Tell her that she isn't what you were looking for and leave it at that.

Besides taking a girls virginity when she isn't ready is a huge mistake. Psycho stalker *****es are made this way.
 

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Even us guys got to admit, taking a gurls virginity is a somewhat a big deal (more to them then us). Leave her be, don't make her hate guys for the rest of her life. You arn't doing anybody a favour.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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segam

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she wants

Guys thanks all of you for resondin' ....
You know things are more complicated........ she really wants that with me....... I konw I should leave but how to say that ...just sayin' that she's not the one that i was lookin' for will hurt her more coz she'll consider herself not an attractive one............
anywayz I guess I got to do whatever I should.
 
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