"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What do to with a virgin girl.

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hey guys..
I'm hangin' out with a girl... I'm not in love with her 'n I don't wanna any romance with her ..... I met her just for havin' a good time 'n for sex.... Later I found out that she's virgin 'n she wants deeper relations with me , I DON"T 'n don't want to hurt her,.
Please give me an advice how to be in this case ..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you didn't want to hurt her, you shouldn't have done things that would hurt her.

To just go out with a girl for fun and sex and then to expect her to not get hurt by it is naive.

If you really do not want to hurt her, you've got to lie to her about your true intentions. However, lying to someone could always result in them finding out the truth. Which in the end would hurt her anyway.
 
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If your decent, don't pressure her. Tell her that she isn't what you were looking for and leave it at that.

Besides taking a girls virginity when she isn't ready is a huge mistake. Psycho stalker *****es are made this way.
 
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Even us guys got to admit, taking a gurls virginity is a somewhat a big deal (more to them then us). Leave her be, don't make her hate guys for the rest of her life. You arn't doing anybody a favour.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she wants

Guys thanks all of you for resondin' ....
You know things are more complicated........ she really wants that with me....... I konw I should leave but how to say that ...just sayin' that she's not the one that i was lookin' for will hurt her more coz she'll consider herself not an attractive one............
anywayz I guess I got to do whatever I should.
 
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