"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What do to with a virgin girl.

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hey guys..
I'm hangin' out with a girl... I'm not in love with her 'n I don't wanna any romance with her ..... I met her just for havin' a good time 'n for sex.... Later I found out that she's virgin 'n she wants deeper relations with me , I DON"T 'n don't want to hurt her,.
Please give me an advice how to be in this case ..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you didn't want to hurt her, you shouldn't have done things that would hurt her.

To just go out with a girl for fun and sex and then to expect her to not get hurt by it is naive.

If you really do not want to hurt her, you've got to lie to her about your true intentions. However, lying to someone could always result in them finding out the truth. Which in the end would hurt her anyway.
 
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If your decent, don't pressure her. Tell her that she isn't what you were looking for and leave it at that.

Besides taking a girls virginity when she isn't ready is a huge mistake. Psycho stalker *****es are made this way.
 
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Even us guys got to admit, taking a gurls virginity is a somewhat a big deal (more to them then us). Leave her be, don't make her hate guys for the rest of her life. You arn't doing anybody a favour.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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she wants

Guys thanks all of you for resondin' ....
You know things are more complicated........ she really wants that with me....... I konw I should leave but how to say that ...just sayin' that she's not the one that i was lookin' for will hurt her more coz she'll consider herself not an attractive one............
anywayz I guess I got to do whatever I should.
 
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