"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What Do I Do?!?!?!?!

Stealth139

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i have a problem and i don't know what to do. i'm 16 and going into grade 11. theres a girl that i really like but i havent asked her out yet and now its getting too late. i just found out the other day that she likes me too, but heres the problem the same day i found out, she flew to another continent for the whole summer. i don't know if i should wait for her to get back and ask her out then, but risking that she may change her mind, or if i should aske her out in an e-mail or over msn.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Funkopotamus

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(A) Where the HELL are you going to "GO OUT" if you ask her to do so if she is 4,000 miles away?

(B) If she did say yes.... You would wait the entire summer and waste the chance to meet other HB's just in hopes that she will still like you when she gets back?


If (B) is true then you need to be slapped!

Just my opinion.
 

the pokemaster

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what i'd do in this situation. is find another girl for the summer that she won't find out about when she gets back.

This way you wont have your mind set on her too much so when she does get back you won't come off as desperate and needy.

You could also if she has msn just keep in contact for a bit. Keep the chemistry going make sure she don't forget about you.

But dont b talking to her like everynight! Jus play it cool. Only like once a week. She won't forget about you trust. Especially if she likes you.

If you play it cool she'll be desperate to go out with you when you get back!

Remember if she likes you she'll also be thinking "o i hope this guy still fancies me when i get back!":D

Hope you found this helpful!

Elti Boi
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blinkwatt

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same issue here the lady i was after left the country on some trip. just find something that you find interesting and stay busy with that,ie another girl,summer job.
 
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