Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What Do I Do?!?!?!?!

Stealth139

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i have a problem and i don't know what to do. i'm 16 and going into grade 11. theres a girl that i really like but i havent asked her out yet and now its getting too late. i just found out the other day that she likes me too, but heres the problem the same day i found out, she flew to another continent for the whole summer. i don't know if i should wait for her to get back and ask her out then, but risking that she may change her mind, or if i should aske her out in an e-mail or over msn.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Funkopotamus

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(A) Where the HELL are you going to "GO OUT" if you ask her to do so if she is 4,000 miles away?

(B) If she did say yes.... You would wait the entire summer and waste the chance to meet other HB's just in hopes that she will still like you when she gets back?


If (B) is true then you need to be slapped!

Just my opinion.
 

the pokemaster

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what i'd do in this situation. is find another girl for the summer that she won't find out about when she gets back.

This way you wont have your mind set on her too much so when she does get back you won't come off as desperate and needy.

You could also if she has msn just keep in contact for a bit. Keep the chemistry going make sure she don't forget about you.

But dont b talking to her like everynight! Jus play it cool. Only like once a week. She won't forget about you trust. Especially if she likes you.

If you play it cool she'll be desperate to go out with you when you get back!

Remember if she likes you she'll also be thinking "o i hope this guy still fancies me when i get back!":D

Hope you found this helpful!

Elti Boi
one love
 

blinkwatt

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same issue here the lady i was after left the country on some trip. just find something that you find interesting and stay busy with that,ie another girl,summer job.
 
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