"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What Do I Do?!?!?!?!

Stealth139

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i have a problem and i don't know what to do. i'm 16 and going into grade 11. theres a girl that i really like but i havent asked her out yet and now its getting too late. i just found out the other day that she likes me too, but heres the problem the same day i found out, she flew to another continent for the whole summer. i don't know if i should wait for her to get back and ask her out then, but risking that she may change her mind, or if i should aske her out in an e-mail or over msn.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Funkopotamus

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(A) Where the HELL are you going to "GO OUT" if you ask her to do so if she is 4,000 miles away?

(B) If she did say yes.... You would wait the entire summer and waste the chance to meet other HB's just in hopes that she will still like you when she gets back?


If (B) is true then you need to be slapped!

Just my opinion.
 

the pokemaster

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what i'd do in this situation. is find another girl for the summer that she won't find out about when she gets back.

This way you wont have your mind set on her too much so when she does get back you won't come off as desperate and needy.

You could also if she has msn just keep in contact for a bit. Keep the chemistry going make sure she don't forget about you.

But dont b talking to her like everynight! Jus play it cool. Only like once a week. She won't forget about you trust. Especially if she likes you.

If you play it cool she'll be desperate to go out with you when you get back!

Remember if she likes you she'll also be thinking "o i hope this guy still fancies me when i get back!":D

Hope you found this helpful!

Elti Boi
one love
 

blinkwatt

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same issue here the lady i was after left the country on some trip. just find something that you find interesting and stay busy with that,ie another girl,summer job.
 
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