What do I do?

[andreus]

OK, I've been going out with my girlfriend for a few weeks. She's great; nice, funny, and really hot. I really like her, but I only like her; I'm not obsessed or anything.

However, she's sort of been getting upset lately because its always her that is asking me out. She is always the one who calls and makes plans. I know that is something I can work on, but what exactly should I do? Is this a bad thing?

Thanks for any help!

 

[SenorSuave]

Well, if you aren't too attached then it shouldn't be much of a problem. But here's a nice idea. Setup a "date" with her somewhere out of the ordinary. For example, go to a book store (Borders, Barnes and Noble) and browse through. Go through the self-improvement section and point out books of areas she needs help with (it's more of a c and f thing here) or, if you have created enough attraction, go through the Karma Sutra books and tease her about different positions she should try with you.

 

[andreus]

Well, I always act a little c + f with her (I've never had trouble not being AFC and stuff). However, I feel a little uncomfortable that she doesn't think I like her as much as she likes me. I just planned a couple of dates for us to make her happier.

 

[GaryUranga]

let her be mad, its all good, maybe rarely ask her out instead, but keep doign it cause its workign and it keeps her on her toes

 

[mxylplk]

don't worry too much why you feel that "you only like her." Have fun with this courtship. As for her being upset that she always makes the plans, simply surprise her with one of your own. It doesn't have to be costly. Go for a bike ride together, go to the beach, get some lunch from a take out or from your own place and have a picnic somewhere then later sing something to her (if you're musical), or go for ice cream.