"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do I do after this?

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Hi, I am a Filipino, I met this girl at a party of my friend, we had sex during that time, and dated 2 weeks after....we had a great time, had great sex every time we met on a date. she always came on me whenever we do each other for 6 hours, yup the last time we did was 1:30 until 7am. we have been dating for 3 months already. she got work as an OR nurse but I'm still a graduating student. she also admitted that she has feelings for me, she also said she'd like to take some more time to get to know each other.

last week after she went back from macau, we were supposed to meet but i didn't mention it cause I had no money that time to have a date with her. and she was on her ovulation period so it wasn't safe to have sex. when we were msging each other there was this gut feeling that she had another guy, so I texted her that I'm like, jealous, but she assured me that she was only at the mall and went back home at 10:30am. I was frustrated, cause she was the moody type girl.

by the way, she had a history of giving other guys a good time, as in like, sex, and I did have a sex history too with a couple of other girls before I met her.

now I'm having problems cause she's not contacting me the way it was before, so I did the NC. the other night we texted, but i fell asleep. yesterday she didnt msg me, so I msged and called her up 2am in the morning. i got no reply until right now, no call even...what do i do? i've got feelings for her already. this feeling is plain BS cause i'm not having any problems with my previous girls but now I feel like i'm an ass waiting for her to call. I don't wanna move on yet.

I need help badly. money is hard here in the country and I sacrificed and adjusted a lot just to get to this point with her. it's like, I can get my previous girls to have sex with but I just want her at this point. no one else matters right now. I'm still in the NC mode since I last texted her because the ball is in her court... please, I need help.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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When they leave you hanging at the height of your infatuation phase thats when you get severe oneitis. Its bullcrap but it happens. Lesson learned, dont get wrapped up mentally early on.
 
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keep busy.
in the mean time, work out, read, go pishing lol.
 
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thorwynn said:
Hi, I am a Filipino, I met this girl at a party of my friend, we had sex during that time, and dated 2 weeks after....we had a great time, had great sex every time we met on a date. she always came on me whenever we do each other for 6 hours, yup the last time we did was 1:30 until 7am. we have been dating for 3 months already. she got work as an OR nurse but I'm still a graduating student. she also admitted that she has feelings for me, she also said she'd like to take some more time to get to know each other.

last week after she went back from macau, we were supposed to meet but i didn't mention it cause I had no money that time to have a date with her. and she was on her ovulation period so it wasn't safe to have sex. when we were msging each other there was this gut feeling that she had another guy, so I texted her that I'm like, jealous, but she assured me that she was only at the mall and went back home at 10:30am. I was frustrated, cause she was the moody type girl.

by the way, she had a history of giving other guys a good time, as in like, sex, and I did have a sex history too with a couple of other girls before I met her.

now I'm having problems cause she's not contacting me the way it was before, so I did the NC. the other night we texted, but i fell asleep. yesterday she didnt msg me, so I msged and called her up 2am in the morning. i got no reply until right now, no call even...what do i do? i've got feelings for her already. this feeling is plain BS cause i'm not having any problems with my previous girls but now I feel like i'm an ass waiting for her to call. I don't wanna move on yet.

I need help badly. money is hard here in the country and I sacrificed and adjusted a lot just to get to this point with her. it's like, I can get my previous girls to have sex with but I just want her at this point. no one else matters right now. I'm still in the NC mode since I last texted her because the ball is in her court... please, I need help.
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You are in deep shit. As I was reading your post, I was highlighting key points when I read that you already developed feelings (after only 3 months).

You need to see other girls, asap. Keeping your mind off her is the best thing for you right now.
 
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Guys, can you give more suggestions to prevent this from happening again? I've been doing the lessons here in sosuave, but I am still in the learning process, I still don't know everything, but so far everything in the lessons were very effective which I used with the other girls I had before. I'm still keeping an open mind from you DJs.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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experience bro. make mistakes. you cant be perfect all the time. so you gain more confidence in making mistakes, then learning from them.

You have an open mind which a good attitude.
 
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Thorwynn, you need to protect your heart by going in slowly...i.e integrate the person you have feelings for "slowly" into your life. Else if you make them your everything and they leave you you will have nothing and feel like ****. Always make sure they are meeting you in the middle and if not back up...
 
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alright guys, but what if I want her back? what do I do now?
 
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nothing...go and find someone else who is interested in you. She is not interested.
 
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i'm keeping my mind open but are there any more suggestions other than what window said? im seeing other girls already. but i said, IF i want her back, what should I do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thorwynn said:
i'm keeping my mind open but are there any more suggestions other than what window said? im seeing other girls already. but i said, IF i want her back, what should I do?
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Sometimes you just don't get what you want.
The only thing you can really do is go about your life and if she comes back, she comes back.
There are no solutions other than very temporary that in the long run will cost you money and self respect.

It's sad and I feel your pain, but the best way to get her back is to appear to not want her back.

Question is ... why would you want her back? She sounds a tad flaky.

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