"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What do I do about this girl?

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There is this girl that I work with and she recently changed seats and is further from where I am. Anyway I have been interested in her, but recently stopped persuing her because I felt I wasn't moving forward. She seems to try talk to me at her convenience, but she makes sure she is unavailable when I was willing to talk to her and possibly arrange something with her so I basically cut speaking to her quite a bit since she started to hang out on breaks with this other guy sometimes purposely right in front of me.

She likes to park near my car and then arranges to hang out with this person near where I would park my car after lunch. ( Last Tuesday) In response I made sure to invite him to an after work outing along with her through e-mail along with several other people. She responded yes very quickly and he never responded back.

Today was the kicker though. As I was leaving work He and Jackie were getting into his car. I pretended I never saw them and I guess he offered her a ride to her car making sure I see the two together. She got out and was talking to him for who knows how long because I was already gone. I only took a quick glance as I was leaving

What should I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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They are courting one another - it may not be too late - if you want her, do it quickly!!
 
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ONE-ITIS!!!!!!

by the looks of it, your chances have already dropped because your first impression/s were beta. You want a magic pill? wont find it. sometimes u just gotta know when to NEXT because from what you have said, the chances are low. plenty of women around, GFTOW
 
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Do you think I should park right next to her or park out of sight so she doesn't know where I park the car. I'm sick of getting this thrown in my face. All she did was hurt me mentally for the last two weeks which was why I stopped talking to her.
 
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im thinking you should just ignore everything about them. im guessing she KNOWS you are into her and once a girl know u like her, it's game OVER. so just move on and dont let it affect you. do everything like you would of always done.

go out there sarge some other women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yes she does, because I did ask her out in early March and she said she had friends coming in from out of town and she was unable to meet me after work. I think I might give it one more shot. Thanks for the advice soo far. I am hoping this other girl I like shows up and I am talking to her right in front of Jackie sometime soon.
 
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Originally posted by Hurri
im thinking you should just ignore everything about them. im guessing she KNOWS you are into her and once a girl know u like her, it's game OVER. so just move on and dont let it affect you. do everything like you would of always done.

go out there sarge some other women.
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How can you NOT let a woman know you like her? If you approach her, she already knows you think she's attractive. If you get her number, she knows you like her. If you call her after a few days, she knows that even though you might be a busy guy with a life, you still LIKE her. The problem is only when YOU like her and SHE doesn't like you.
 
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