"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What do I do about this girl?

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There is this girl that I work with and she recently changed seats and is further from where I am. Anyway I have been interested in her, but recently stopped persuing her because I felt I wasn't moving forward. She seems to try talk to me at her convenience, but she makes sure she is unavailable when I was willing to talk to her and possibly arrange something with her so I basically cut speaking to her quite a bit since she started to hang out on breaks with this other guy sometimes purposely right in front of me.

She likes to park near my car and then arranges to hang out with this person near where I would park my car after lunch. ( Last Tuesday) In response I made sure to invite him to an after work outing along with her through e-mail along with several other people. She responded yes very quickly and he never responded back.

Today was the kicker though. As I was leaving work He and Jackie were getting into his car. I pretended I never saw them and I guess he offered her a ride to her car making sure I see the two together. She got out and was talking to him for who knows how long because I was already gone. I only took a quick glance as I was leaving

What should I do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They are courting one another - it may not be too late - if you want her, do it quickly!!
 
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ONE-ITIS!!!!!!

by the looks of it, your chances have already dropped because your first impression/s were beta. You want a magic pill? wont find it. sometimes u just gotta know when to NEXT because from what you have said, the chances are low. plenty of women around, GFTOW
 
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Do you think I should park right next to her or park out of sight so she doesn't know where I park the car. I'm sick of getting this thrown in my face. All she did was hurt me mentally for the last two weeks which was why I stopped talking to her.
 
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im thinking you should just ignore everything about them. im guessing she KNOWS you are into her and once a girl know u like her, it's game OVER. so just move on and dont let it affect you. do everything like you would of always done.

go out there sarge some other women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yes she does, because I did ask her out in early March and she said she had friends coming in from out of town and she was unable to meet me after work. I think I might give it one more shot. Thanks for the advice soo far. I am hoping this other girl I like shows up and I am talking to her right in front of Jackie sometime soon.
 
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Originally posted by Hurri
im thinking you should just ignore everything about them. im guessing she KNOWS you are into her and once a girl know u like her, it's game OVER. so just move on and dont let it affect you. do everything like you would of always done.

go out there sarge some other women.
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How can you NOT let a woman know you like her? If you approach her, she already knows you think she's attractive. If you get her number, she knows you like her. If you call her after a few days, she knows that even though you might be a busy guy with a life, you still LIKE her. The problem is only when YOU like her and SHE doesn't like you.
 
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