What do I do about this (Been seeing a girl with bf/She says she will leave him/Sex)

[papawapa]

Look, I spent many years with a woman like the one you are "in love" with. She lived with me and had relationships that she was telling the other guy she loved him at least three different times.

She lives far away from you. You don't know where she is or what she is doing at all times. She is telling you she loves you. She is telling another man she loves him. She is not a quality woman. Period, end of story. But to each his own.

 

[Jaylan]

Her boyfriend who was emotionally unavalable towards her - and treated her like garbage...

maybe she just wanted someone to treat her like she deserves to be treated and found that in me...

Lets paint every girl with the same brush and then insult the guy shes with...

hows that going for you in life? - also jealous much?

yeah im a real chump - with a girl i love who loves me and the best sex i've ever had.

ill live i think lol

smh...

This is what man has come to? Pedestalizing a cheating skank and committing to her when you already know shes low quality? Wow OP.

Dont post here in the future when this chick plays you, because while you may get some help, you will be taken to task. Live and learn though. This wont last. Mark our words brother.

Before you know it, youll be dipping your d!k into her puzzy after it was freshly jizzed in by another male. Dont believe us? well lets be serious bro.

wow....just fvking wow...

 

[bobbates]

cba anymore - the aggrogance amazes me though - no maybe's - no be careful but it might be ok.

You say it will be this way so thats the way it will be 100% no questions asked - do you know her? no (even if you knew a girl "like" this - that is not the same girl)

Maybe that happend to you because you needed to "know where she was at all times" - was she your prisoner? - she probabbly sensed your lack of trust and pecieved it as weak - why didnt you just go all out and follow her everywhere, and set up hidden cameras?

I had a hard time trusting her because of what happend - but i understand why she did that now.

She never once kept me in the dark - always told me what was going on and what was going to happen - and she followed through on that in the end.

and even though i was being a un-trusting guy towards her - and we had untold arguments about it - she didnt even so much as look at another guy - get over yourselfs god.

you all think women are identical - not one could possiblly be telling the truth - that cant be a good way to live.

It has taken a long time to trust her - and i based it on the way she was with me - and that alone.

So she made a mistake being with him - made a mistake - she just wanted love and could not find it with him - and even then stuck with him for 6 years - 6 years! - I give her that love.

Not every girl is a slag and **** mad you know.

maybe the ones you know are - but again - i hope you love that life

 

[Jaylan]

^There are two sides too every story.

Stop being a simp that takes everything she says as gospel.

Shes a low quality cheater...and this wont last. Prove me wrong. I never see these kinds of disloyal, dishonest, betraying women change...ever.

 

[JoeMarron]

Dear papawapa,

How can you garrentee that? please show me the proof...

Oh yeah thats right - you have none.

Again - every woman is the same - got it.

Some of us are not so cynical and narrrow minded and have the guts to take a risk like this

There's a fine line between taking intelligent risks and foolish risks. The fact is your girl has a history of shady, low quality behavior. String of bf's who treated her like sh!t, red flag. Stringing you and the other dude along for months before she finally made a decision, red flag. The fact that she lives hundreds of miles away and you can't know for sure what her life is like, red flag. Sure you know this chick better than we do, we're only making conclusions based on the information you gave us. That information however tells us everything we need to know. The deck is not stacked in your favor bro...odds are this sh!t is not going to end well. Don't let pvssy blind you into taking foolish risks instead of looking at the situation rationally. The most this chick should be to you is a girl you fvck every now and then while fvcking other chicks locally.