"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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What do black jeans go well with?

The_Reaper

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Sorry if this seems a little off-topic, but I believe the way you dress is very important for this aspect of your life. So, what kind of shirts/tops/shoes/runners do black jeans go well with, in your opinions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Shoulda been in Anything Else...

Anyway, black goes with everything. Whatever color shirt you want, whatever color shoes you want, it should look good. Just don't wear ALL black; You don't wanna look like some emo or goth or something right?
 

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Ha, no the emo/goth look is not what I'm looking for.

I'm wondering if white runners and a red t-shirt would look a bit incongruous.
 

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Not trying to be rude but Throw your black jeans away!

Black jeans are terrible on guys.

Unless you're goth or perhaps the baggy jeans skater type.
 

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Distressed, boot-cut black jeans look great. They aren't actually black, more like a grey. They look really good with a black pinstriped dress shirt and casual shoes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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don't wear black jeans ever. or grey.

doesn't even work with skater types... maybe goth kids... but... goth... why.
 

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Hngh...

Black jeans can go with anything, it depends more on the cut than the color. They should be slim and straight.

I have a pair of almost-too-short slim black washed jeans that look like trousers, so I tend to wear them with smarter outfits.

What did you have in mind?
 

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The_Reaper said:
Sorry if this seems a little off-topic, but I believe the way you dress is very important for this aspect of your life. So, what kind of shirts/tops/shoes/runners do black jeans go well with, in your opinions?
Black Jeans, Black T-shirt and my Harley Davidson.

-Al
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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