"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do black jeans go well with?

The_Reaper

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Sorry if this seems a little off-topic, but I believe the way you dress is very important for this aspect of your life. So, what kind of shirts/tops/shoes/runners do black jeans go well with, in your opinions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ace of Flames

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Shoulda been in Anything Else...

Anyway, black goes with everything. Whatever color shirt you want, whatever color shoes you want, it should look good. Just don't wear ALL black; You don't wanna look like some emo or goth or something right?
 

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Ha, no the emo/goth look is not what I'm looking for.

I'm wondering if white runners and a red t-shirt would look a bit incongruous.
 

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Not trying to be rude but Throw your black jeans away!

Black jeans are terrible on guys.

Unless you're goth or perhaps the baggy jeans skater type.
 

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Distressed, boot-cut black jeans look great. They aren't actually black, more like a grey. They look really good with a black pinstriped dress shirt and casual shoes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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don't wear black jeans ever. or grey.

doesn't even work with skater types... maybe goth kids... but... goth... why.
 

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Hngh...

Black jeans can go with anything, it depends more on the cut than the color. They should be slim and straight.

I have a pair of almost-too-short slim black washed jeans that look like trousers, so I tend to wear them with smarter outfits.

What did you have in mind?
 

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The_Reaper said:
Sorry if this seems a little off-topic, but I believe the way you dress is very important for this aspect of your life. So, what kind of shirts/tops/shoes/runners do black jeans go well with, in your opinions?
Black Jeans, Black T-shirt and my Harley Davidson.

-Al
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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