The_Reaper
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Sorry if this seems a little off-topic, but I believe the way you dress is very important for this aspect of your life. So, what kind of shirts/tops/shoes/runners do black jeans go well with, in your opinions?
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What do black jeans go well with?
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Shoulda been in Anything Else...
Anyway, black goes with everything. Whatever color shirt you want, whatever color shoes you want, it should look good. Just don't wear ALL black; You don't wanna look like some emo or goth or something right?
Anyway, black goes with everything. Whatever color shirt you want, whatever color shoes you want, it should look good. Just don't wear ALL black; You don't wanna look like some emo or goth or something right?
The_Reaper
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Ha, no the emo/goth look is not what I'm looking for.
I'm wondering if white runners and a red t-shirt would look a bit incongruous.
I'm wondering if white runners and a red t-shirt would look a bit incongruous.
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don't wear black jeans ever. or grey.
doesn't even work with skater types... maybe goth kids... but... goth... why.
doesn't even work with skater types... maybe goth kids... but... goth... why.
Black jeans.. I hope you still aren't set out to get a pair...
I love these 8GB's by Diesel though:
http://www.ssense.com/Diesel-Men-Jeans/Diesel_Zathan_8GB_Jeans/2895
They're boot cut, and they fit really well! Made in Italy! The only problem about getting a pair of Diesel jeans is wanting more! They're simply great designer jeans!
I love these 8GB's by Diesel though:
http://www.ssense.com/Diesel-Men-Jeans/Diesel_Zathan_8GB_Jeans/2895
They're boot cut, and they fit really well! Made in Italy! The only problem about getting a pair of Diesel jeans is wanting more! They're simply great designer jeans!
seanchai
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Hngh...
Black jeans can go with anything, it depends more on the cut than the color. They should be slim and straight.
I have a pair of almost-too-short slim black washed jeans that look like trousers, so I tend to wear them with smarter outfits.
What did you have in mind?
Black jeans can go with anything, it depends more on the cut than the color. They should be slim and straight.
I have a pair of almost-too-short slim black washed jeans that look like trousers, so I tend to wear them with smarter outfits.
What did you have in mind?
penkitten
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everything!!
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