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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What do black jeans go well with?

The_Reaper

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Sorry if this seems a little off-topic, but I believe the way you dress is very important for this aspect of your life. So, what kind of shirts/tops/shoes/runners do black jeans go well with, in your opinions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Shoulda been in Anything Else...

Anyway, black goes with everything. Whatever color shirt you want, whatever color shoes you want, it should look good. Just don't wear ALL black; You don't wanna look like some emo or goth or something right?
 

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Ha, no the emo/goth look is not what I'm looking for.

I'm wondering if white runners and a red t-shirt would look a bit incongruous.
 

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Not trying to be rude but Throw your black jeans away!

Black jeans are terrible on guys.

Unless you're goth or perhaps the baggy jeans skater type.
 

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Distressed, boot-cut black jeans look great. They aren't actually black, more like a grey. They look really good with a black pinstriped dress shirt and casual shoes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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don't wear black jeans ever. or grey.

doesn't even work with skater types... maybe goth kids... but... goth... why.
 

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Hngh...

Black jeans can go with anything, it depends more on the cut than the color. They should be slim and straight.

I have a pair of almost-too-short slim black washed jeans that look like trousers, so I tend to wear them with smarter outfits.

What did you have in mind?
 

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The_Reaper said:
Sorry if this seems a little off-topic, but I believe the way you dress is very important for this aspect of your life. So, what kind of shirts/tops/shoes/runners do black jeans go well with, in your opinions?
Black Jeans, Black T-shirt and my Harley Davidson.

-Al
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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