"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What did you change about your appearance that resulted in more attention from women?

Paintballguy

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I lost over 70 pounds a few years back which made a huge huge huge difference. Then, I started to lift and put on some muscle. Also, changed up my clothing style which seemed to help a good bit.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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aussiegoat55

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Shorter hair
Tighter fitting shirts
Cleaner (shaving and haircuts), yet still rugged appearance
Lost some weight
Stopped wearing silver analog watch
 

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David Beckham isn't pale, the guy has a better tan than probably most people. But yeh he is skinny as ****
 

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Me neither, man. Especially since there's a few girls I know that won't shut up about how hot this guy is. Turns out the secret to being good-looking is do as much cardio as it takes to lose all muscle mass and to stay inside for 5 years to make sure you have no skin pigment! Maybe some of you should try the David Beckham routine.
If those exhausive comments from those chicks, specifically commenting on his body and a huge pic of that small chest, doesn't kill every notion that women don't really care for the "meat-head" look like you see everywhere in Gold's gym, then nothing will. Fit is where its at. Bulk, if anything, hurts more than helps, especially when its excessive.
 
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