Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I lost over 70 pounds a few years back which made a huge huge huge difference. Then, I started to lift and put on some muscle. Also, changed up my clothing style which seemed to help a good bit.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What did you change about your appearance that resulted in more attention from women?
- Thread starter rapless
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
aussiegoat55
Senior Don Juan
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Shorter hair
Tighter fitting shirts
Cleaner (shaving and haircuts), yet still rugged appearance
Lost some weight
Stopped wearing silver analog watch
Tighter fitting shirts
Cleaner (shaving and haircuts), yet still rugged appearance
Lost some weight
Stopped wearing silver analog watch
If those exhausive comments from those chicks, specifically commenting on his body and a huge pic of that small chest, doesn't kill every notion that women don't really care for the "meat-head" look like you see everywhere in Gold's gym, then nothing will. Fit is where its at. Bulk, if anything, hurts more than helps, especially when its excessive.Deus ex Pianoforte said: