Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I lost over 70 pounds a few years back which made a huge huge huge difference. Then, I started to lift and put on some muscle. Also, changed up my clothing style which seemed to help a good bit.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What did you change about your appearance that resulted in more attention from women?
- Thread starter rapless
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
aussiegoat55
Senior Don Juan
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Shorter hair
Tighter fitting shirts
Cleaner (shaving and haircuts), yet still rugged appearance
Lost some weight
Stopped wearing silver analog watch
Tighter fitting shirts
Cleaner (shaving and haircuts), yet still rugged appearance
Lost some weight
Stopped wearing silver analog watch
If those exhausive comments from those chicks, specifically commenting on his body and a huge pic of that small chest, doesn't kill every notion that women don't really care for the "meat-head" look like you see everywhere in Gold's gym, then nothing will. Fit is where its at. Bulk, if anything, hurts more than helps, especially when its excessive.Deus ex Pianoforte said: